Prioritize Justice & Fairness in Relationships [5:8]

Today’s reflection on verse 8 from Sura Ma’ida concerns our relationships with everyone, not just with those whom we love and are close to. In fact, it is very important guidance in dealing with those who we are in conflict with or don’t care for.

While asking the believers to be "bearers of witness for justice", Allah [swt] says:

وَلاَ يَجْرِمَنَّكُمْ شَنَآنُ قَوْمٍ عَلَى أَلاَّ تَعْدِلُواْ اعْدِلُواْ هُوَ أَقْرَبُ لِلتَّقْوَى وَاتَّقُواْ اللّهَ إِنَّ اللّهَ خَبِيرٌ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ

[5:8] O you who believe! . . . and let not hatred of a people incite you not to act equitably; act equitably, that is nearer to piety, and be careful of (your duty to) Allah; surely Allah is Aware of what you do.

It is much easier to be fair to those we love, but the real test of justice and equity is whether we can uphold fairness even with those we dislike or disagree with. The Quran calls us to rise above personal biases and make fairness a guiding principle in all interactions.

Justice Requires Principles, Not Personalities

 One of the greatest barriers to fairness is when we judge situations based on who is involved rather than what is right. It is challenging to admit that we may be subject to bias when dealing with non-friends and these reflections might help:

•  Would we defend someone’s behavior if it were a close friend—but criticize the same action if done by a stranger?
  ·      Would we enforce rules strictly on some people but overlook them for others?
  ·      Would we remain silent about an injustice if the perpetrator is someone we admire?

A just person makes decisions based on principles, not personalities.

The Imams as Models of Justice

Our Imams (as) were renowned for their unwavering commitment to justice, regardless of whether they were dealing with friends, family, or adversaries.

Here is a famous story as one example: During his caliphate, Imam Ali (as) had a dispute with a Jewish man over a piece of armour who claimed the armour was his. They went to court, and the judge ruled against Imam Ali (as) because the evidence favored the Jewish man. Imam Ali (as) accepted the verdict with humility. The Jewish man, witnessing this fairness, later admitted that the armour was indeed Imam Ali(as)’s and embraced Islam.

Even after the brutal tragedy of Karbala, Imam Sajjad (as) insisted that the rights of even his enemies be honoured, never letting personal pain interfere with justice. He is famously reported to have said, "Even if the killer of Ali Akbar was to deposit something in trust with me, I would honour that trust".

This is how the family of the Al-Ameen [the most trustworthy, one of the names that people called the Holy Prophet [saw] with] dealt with those who were sworn enemies to them, and this is how they build trust and relationship with all those who crossed their paths. 

Why Is Justice So Important in Relationships?

It Builds Trust – When people see that we are fair regardless of personal feelings, it strengthens mutual respect and trust.

It Prevents Resentment & Conflict – Injustice fuels division; fairness promotes unity.

It Strengthens Communities – Justice ensures that everyone is treated with dignity and respect, leading to stronger relationships.

It Reflects God-Consciousness (Taqwa) – Being fair even when it is hard is an act of spiritual discipline.

Practical Steps: How to Be More Just in Daily Life

Ask Yourself: Would I Judge This Differently If It Were Someone Else?

• Before making a decision, pause and ask:
  Would I say or do the same if it were someone I liked or respected?
• If the answer is no, then personal bias is affecting the judgment.

Base Decisions on Principles, Not Feelings

• Instead of focusing on who is involved, focus on what is right.
• Would you apply the same standard of honesty, fairness, and kindnessto everyone?

Listen to Both Sides Before Making a Judgment

• It is unfair to decide a matter without hearing all perspectives.

Be Honest About Bias

• Acknowledge when personal emotionsmay cloud judgment and actively work to correct them or to excuse yourself from the situation

Seek a Just Outcome, Not Just "Winning"

The Quran reminds us that justice is the path to righteousness and communal wellbeing. If we train ourselves to be fair, even when it is difficult, we please Allah [swt] and we build stronger, more meaningful relationships and communities.
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